It’s Here!

Posted on: 04/25/12 3:55 AM | by Jonathan McKee

As a Zondervan author, I usually get a shipment of my books/DVDs a few weeks before they hit the shelves. This Monday my brand new REAL CONVERSATIONS arrived! So right now. I’m offering the DVD and combo Participant’s Guide/Leader’s Guide on my site for less than $20 total (and we’re giving FREE SHIPPING in the US).

I’ve been getting some really good feedback about this curriculum so far. Doug Fields said:

“REAL CONVERSATIONS HELPS TEENAGERS THINK ABOUT THEIR FAITH, THEIR APPROACH, AND PROVIDES REAL EXAMPLES OF HOW TO SHARE THEIR FAITH STORY. I’M THRILLED FOR THIS NEW RESOURCE TO BE OUT!”- Doug Fields

The curriculum features four sessions on the DVD, each about 12 minutes long, the last session a little longer because it features a scene between two teenage girls having a “faith conversation” where one girl shares her faith story in a real way. I had a group of 5 or 6 teenagers help me with the writing of that scene, keeping it real… not forced.

The participant’s guide features some devotional questions for students, then leaders’ notes with large group activities, small group questions… all you need for a full four-week evangelism curriculum.

In short, this training will encourage Christian teenagers to live authentic lives and gives them tools to reach out to their friends in ways that won’t give them cold sweats! The message is simple: an authentic faith creates opportunities to talk about Jesus.

CLICK HERE TO GET THIS TRAINING FOR LESS THAN $20

Vote for Your Favorite Video

Posted on: 04/16/12 5:25 PM | by Jonathan McKee

It’s time for you to vote on the best “bad evangelism” video.

This fun little contest launched with the approach of my brand new evangelism curriculum, REAL CONVERSATIONS, which will be on the shelves in less than a month now (you might have already noticed it on sale on our web site right now for just $19.49, which is $10 off). I’m really excited about this curriculum. I’ve been getting emails for years from people who couldn’t afford to fly somebody out for the weekend to train their student leaders, asking me about some good “do-it-yourself” training options. Now here’s a four-week full curriculum for less than $20 –on our site– that will help you motivate and equip your kids to reach out. It has four sessions on DVD plus individual study guides for the teenagers, and a leaders guide that includes large group activities, small group questions… everything you need! Not too shabby.

Since the DVD training includes some vignettes about “how NOT to share your faith,” Youth Specialties announced this training with a “Bad Evangelism” contest. Youth groups submitted videos, and YS selected four finalists.

Watch the four finalists and vote here–quite a variety to choose from. The first one, the “Evangelism Linebacker” was probably the most polished and commercial-like. But the second one really captured some snapshots of evangelism blunders that might be a little too real for many youth groups. Kudos to them for the forethought that went into this video. The third one was more of a look at bad evangelism from the pulpit (Really funny for a home-made video… I love the organ). The fourth was another creative idea of how NOT to share.

In general, it looks like youth groups really had a fun time with this little contest. Hopefully it spurred some thinking about how to really have these kinds of “real conversations.”

Cast your vote. Voting is from now until 4/23.

Bad Evangelism Videos

Posted on: 04/8/12 10:03 AM | by Jonathan McKee

I was looking over some of the entries for the Bad Evangelism Contest so far. Funny stuff (Here’s one… and another). I think some youth ministries are really having fun with it. I know many groups are going to try to put together a 1 minute video this week and hit that 4/13 deadline. (So worth it, YS is really kicking in with the prizes for this one!)

I stumbled across this old “bad evangelism” video that me and my brother made. Funny stuff (wouldn’t qualify for the contest though, it’s over a minute). Check out my son Alec. So dang cute! (Now he’s 18… if that dates this video for ya!)

Ha! I love the random hair thing I did for this video!

This is the last week to turn in your video to YS. Winner gets my new Real Conversations DVD training, up to 50 Participant’s Guides, and one of each of my YS books in print. And don’t forget the extra little prize I threw in the mix for each and every one of you who just turns in a video.

That’s a pretty good collection of loot! Happy filming! (Contest Details here)

A Free Book with Every Contest Entry

Posted on: 03/27/12 1:02 PM | by Jonathan McKee

Youth Specialties just launched a fun “Evangelism Gone Bad” contest, where youth groups upload to YouTube a one-minute video showing what awful evangelism looks like among teenagers. The winning youth group gets a ton of free goodies: a free copy of my upcoming DVD evangelism curriculum, Real Conversations: Sharing Your Faith without Being Pushy; up to 50 Participant Guides for this curriculum, AND… a copy of every book I’ve written for YS.

Here’s the video we made for the contest (note how I incorporated the eye injury in the video… hee, hee).

Click here for all the contest details.

As if this wasn’t enough… I decided that I’d up the ante just a lil bit, and reward each and every youth leader who is my blog subscriber and decides to enter this contest! I’ll make it simple. If any youth group makes a video and submits it, I’ll send that youth leader a free copy of my book about relational evangelism, Do They Run When They See You Coming. (The new DVD curriculum was actually inspired by this book about reaching out to “the Unchurched.”)

So don’t waste any time… you only have a couple weeks. Make those videos, upload them to YouTube, and then, in addition to following all the contest details/requirements, send me a link to the video and I’ll send you your free book!

A Glimpse at Our Current & Upcoming GiveAways

Posted on: 03/19/12 5:18 PM | by Jonathan McKee

I love giving stuff away…and today, this week, and in the next few weeks we’re giving away some really cool free prizes just as a thanks for reading, commenting, Liking, and Tweeting our free resources. Here’s a peek at the prizes and contests!

Life in 6 Words 7 Session DVD CurriculumToday, ending Tuesday, March 20th. It’s simple– tweet, Like, rate or comment any of our FREE TRAINING TOOLS articles on the HELP ME page and you qualify to win. Details here. Announcing the winner at the end of the day, March 20th.

Real Conversations 4 Session DVD Curriculum– Later this week, ending mid April. This new evangelism curriculum is going to be available soon, so YS is sponsoring a video contest where youth groups create funny 1-minute videos demonstrating some over-the-top, awful attempts at evangelism. Winner will get the curriculum with up to 50 participant guides and a copy of every YS book I’ve written (that’s 5 books in addition to this curriculum). More details coming in this blog later this week.

Do They Run When They See You Coming?– Next week. Our free book of the week will be given free to anyone who uploads a video for the above Real Conversations contest.

Building a Youth Ministry that Builds Disciples, by Duffy Robbins– Following Week. The next book of the week giveaway.

That’s just a glimpse! The more connected you are, the easier it is to win. So make sure you’re a subscriber to this blog, you “Like” our Facebook.com/TheSource4YM page, and follow me on Twitter.

Evangelism… a Tool for Spiritual Growth?

Posted on: 03/18/12 1:50 PM | by Jonathan McKee

We’re smack in the middle of a contest where we’re talking about the importance of equipping young people to articulate their faith, and we’re giving away a free 7-session DVD evangelism curriculum.

Evangelism and spiritual growth are the topics at hand. With that in mind, let me ask, “How do you think adults should help young people grow spiritually and own their own faith?”

That’s what I asked my good friend Greg Stier, author, evangelist, and president of Dare2Share.org.  I respect Greg immensely. If you know Greg… he’s the real deal. He lives an authentic faith that opens the door to real conversations about Christ.

Greg and I were talking about the large number of young people that walk away from their faith. It’s something the youth ministry world has been blogging and debating about for years now, and everyone seems to have a theory. I was curious what Greg’s thoughts were on the matter. So I asked him what he thought the solution was. His answer didn’t surprise me:

“Evangelism.”

He didn’t stop with a one-word answer. “If you want a kid to own their faith to the point that it becomes real, teach a kid how to live out their faith and share it with others.”

I chuckled at myself for even asking him the question. “I guess I should have known that you would have answered, evangelism.”

“Well think about it,” he clarified. “Evangelism accomplishes everything we’re looking for.”

He went through his reasoning like bullet points:

  • “We want teenagers to live out their faith. Evangelism requires them to practice what they preach. Nothing motivates young people to live a more authentic life than knowing that they’re being watched and evaluated by their friends.“
  • “We want teenagers to get into scripture. Nothing motivates kids to get into the word more than a friend asking them tough questions that drive them to the Bible for answers.”
  • “We want teenagers to depend on the Holy Spirit. Evangelism would drive C.S. Lewis to rely on the Spirit for help.”

“Evangelism helps young people depend on God like they never have before.”

Greg’s newest evangelism curriculum, Life in 6 Words, a 7-session DVD training helps young people dive into the theology of the Gospel so they can share it simply and authentically.

We’re giving away one of these curriculum right now in our little contest- SEE HERE.

What about you? Do you agree with Greg? Has evangelism catalyzed growth in your kids?

Another Little Contest

Posted on: 03/15/12 8:59 AM | by Jonathan McKee

It’s time to give something away! So let’s have ourselves a little contest, and the prize will be… a free evangelism training curriculum!

WINNER NOW POSTED AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST!

Evangelism. It’s a pretty intimidating concept. If we’re honest with ourselves, many of us are scared even with the mention of the word evangelism. It’s that thing we’re supposed to do, but find it so awkward to fit into everyday life.

So how are we supposed to equip our kids to do it?

For the next few weeks I’ll be giving away some great resources to help you “help young people” share their faith. I’ll be blogging about it and we’ll be giving away books, curriculum, and DVD sessions to help you with this daunting task.

Let’s start by offering youth workers an amazing new resource from Dare2Share.org, their brand new 7 Session DVD evangelism curriculum, Life in 6 Words.

Dare2Share offers this full curriculum for sale for $79.99 on their web site. I’m going to give away one of those full curriculum to one of you in the next few days through our little contest (details below). In addition, Dare2Share has provided an exclusive link for all of you where you can get a free download of their first session of the video, leaders guide and student guide. Be sure to check out this amazing free download.

OUR CONTEST—Here’s how to enter to win a free copy of Life in 6 Words:
Jump on TheSource4YM.com and access the FREE TRAINING TOOLS page from the ARTICLES & FREE TRAINING dropdown menu at the top of the website. Once on the FREE TRAINING TOOLS page, choose, HELP ME. This page provides you with a gold mine of FREE training articles that help you develop your youth ministry skills, anything from leading small groups to planning a youth ministry budget to reaching out to unchurched teenagers. Each of these articles has easy links at the top and bottom of the article to Like, Tweet or +1. Each article also has the ability to comment and rate it one to five stars.

The contest is simple: Like, Tweet (create your own tweets if you like, just include @InJonathansHead), +1, comment, or rate any of these articles and you are entered into the contest. Each time you do any of these actions, your name is thrown in the hopper. The more you Like, share and comment, the better chance you have at winning. (We just ask one simple favor, please don’t rate or comment unless you read the whole article. Violators will be publicly flogged!)

Get to it… we’ll announce winners next week!

THE WINNER: Thanks for all your Likes, comments, tweets and shares! We chose the winner, and it’s one of my Tweet followers, @TifLovesJesus! You win Greg’s new curriculum!

Topography of Faith

Posted on: 01/26/12 5:29 PM | by Jonathan McKee

The subject of evangelism has been on my mind a lot this week and I’ve been playing with a lot of fun resources… you’ll like this one. It’s an interactive map.

You see, I’m always curious when I see studies about religious affiliation– what people believe, where they go to church, etc. Of course, what people say and do are sometimes two different things. When I worked with unchurched kids on a junior high and high school campus, I interacted daily with kids who had only been to church maybe once or twice in their entire lives. Funny… if you asked these kids about church, most said, “Oh, I go to that white church down the street.” They saw that church as “their church” because they’d been their once, or their grandma went there. Religion was more of a “heritage” to most of these teenagers.

I wrote quite a bit about this mindset in my book about reaching out to unchurched kids, DO THEY RUN WHEN THEY SEE YOU COMING? I’ve been looking at that book quite a bit lately because YS/Zondervan has an edit crew putting the final touches on my evangelism training DVD curriculum for students based off that book, titled, REAL CONVERSATIONS: Sharing Your Faith Without Being Pushy.

So this week I’ve been looking through a bunch of cool evangelism resources and studies about the attitudes and belief systems of Americans today. including this cool little interactive map of the U.S. that reveals the “faith breakdown”of each state. This map is based off of Pew‘s most recent study (2008). It’s still pretty accurate, although I’m guessing that next time we’ll see that the “unaffiliated” group has been growing. (Is it just me, or have you noticed more and more “Co-exist” bumper stickers? I guess Christianity is just way too “narrow.”)

CLICK HERE FOR THIS INTERACTIVE MAP

Can The World Deal With Tebow’s Zeal?

Posted on: 12/12/11 9:22 AM | by Jonathan McKee

It’s not often that we hear positive words about Christians on national TV. But Tim Tebow is making a more than a few people scratch their heads and wonder, “Is this whole Christianity thing actually working for this guy?”

Those of us watching the Sunday night football broadcast on NBC this weekend might have heard Bob Costas’ halftime report about Tebow. While many in this nation are mocking Tebow’s faith, or laughing, dropping to one knee and doing the Tebow… others are taking note of his character and undeniable belief.

I couldn’t say it better than Bob Costas did:

“Still, there is no doubt that Tebow and his team benefit from his honest belief. How? Frank Bruni put it well in today’s New York Times. Whatever Tebow may lack in classic NFL quarterbacking traits, he possesses other qualities in abundance. And in his case, those qualities — confidence, equanimity, optimism — and a presence that can’t be explained, but can certainly be felt. The whole Tebow persona derives from how he sees the world, and his place in it. Those qualities, no matter how one comes by them, are an asset, perhaps especially in sports.

Good for Tebow, and those who share his beliefs. And those who don’t can still acknowledge, and appreciate, that who Tim Tebow is, is not only genuine, but for the moment at least, it makes him and the Broncos, one of the most fascinating, and in whatever sense you interpret it, uplifting stories in sports.”

Click here to read Costas entire “halftime essay.”

After hearing Costas give that report yesterday, my daughter Alyssa smiled at me with a surprised look and said, “That is so cool!”

I looked at her equally surprised. “Pinch me. I think I’m dreaming.”

How often have you seen the world take notice of a Christian because of his character?

Will they still notice if he doesn’t get that W next week against the Patriots?

Bronco fans might have flinched when Costas said, “Whatever Tebow may lack in classic NFL quarterbacking traits,” but facts are facts. Tebow can’t throw like Tom Brady. But as Costa so astutely pointed out, what Tebow lacks in quarterbacking, he more than makes up for in character. Kudos to Costas for fairly pointing out that Tebow’s internal qualities are an asset.

Imagine that… the world noticing someone’s character over performance.

New York Times Frank Bruni, mentioned by Costas above, made candid observations about Tebow’s religion as well:

Which brings us back to religion. With Tebow there’s no getting away from it. He uses the microphones thrust in front of him to mention his personal savior, Jesus Christ, and has said that heaven is reserved for devout Christians. He genuflects so publicly and frequently that to drop to one knee in the precise way he does has been given its own word, along with its own Web site, where you can see photographs of people Tebowing inside St. Peter’s, in front of the Taj Mahal, on sand, on ice and even underwater.

That zeal doesn’t go over so well with many football enthusiasts, me included. Tebow performs a sort of self-righteous bait-and-switch — you come for scrimmages and he subjects you to scriptures — and the displeasure with that is also writ colorfully on the Web, in Tebow-ridiculing Twitter feeds and Facebook pages, one devoted entirely to snapshots through time of Tebow in tears. An emotional man, he has traveled a weepy path to this point.

But the intensity of the derision strikes me as unwarranted, in that it outdoes anything directed at, say, the Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback Ben Roethlisberger, accused repeatedly of sexual assault, or other players actually convicted of burglary, gun possession and other crimes. In a league full of blithe felons, Tebow and his oppressive piety don’t seem like such horrendous affronts at all.

Besides which, to get lost in the nature of his Christianity is to miss the ecumenical, secular epiphanies in his — and the Broncos’ — extraordinary season. Their sudden turnaround isn’t just thrilling. It illustrates the limits of logic and the shortcomings of the most quickly made measurements and widely cited metrics.

Bruni’s entire article was worth reading (with a dictionary by your side).

As a parent of three teenagers and a 20-year youth ministry veteran, I have to say, it’s nice to see a positive role model emerging in a world full of lousy heroes. Having just written a summary of 2011’s number one songs and artists, I have a bitter taste in my mouth. Britney? Gaga? Kanye West? Katy Perry? These are the number ones?

Young people today need a hero. They need authentic. With Tebow, they get someone who is genuine on and off the field, a true light in a dark world. That is something worth talking about with our kids.

I pray—and you should too—that Tebow can stay true to his faith and not stumble… because all of America is waiting for him to do so.

Face to Face Time

Posted on: 12/7/11 11:21 AM | by Jonathan McKee

Shoulder-to-shoulder opens doors to face-to-face.

YouthSpecialties.com just posted a new article of mine titled, You Mean I’m Actually Supposed to Play Dodgeball?

Yes… that’s kind of a loaded title. There’s been a lot of criticism in the youth ministry world in the last few years, shooting arrows at “old methods,” especially anything that has to do with fun and games. I’ve written plenty about how games can open doors to amazing ministry opportunities— no need to rehash. So I’ll just emphasize one simple point: the simple art of “playing” with young people can break down walls, and catalyze some great conversations.

Here’s just a snippet from my dodgeball article:

If you want a kid to open up to you in small group time and speak honestly… try playing with them. The toss of a football, sharing a small cardboard tray of cheesy nachos at a football game, the ambush of a cute 8th grade girl with a dodgeball—these activities all open doors to connecting with kids.

That’s the thing. It doesn’t really matter what activity: dodgeball, worshipping to Chris Tomlin or playing X-box. Make the investment of time playing side by side and you’ll yield the results of conversation. Shoulder-to-shoulder opens doors to face-to face.

Just saying! (Click here for the entire dodgeball article, or click here for more on relational ministry in my book, Connect: Real Relationships in a World of Isolation)