Sometimes it’s hard to get people to open up in a group setting. In these situations, nothing proves more effective than a creative question.
“If you had to have the exact same meal for the next twelve months… what would you choose?”
It’s amazing how fun questions provoke people to open up.
These questions might simply begin with: “Lets go around the circle and each of us share…”
I’ve done it with teenagers in small group settings:
“Let’s go around the circle and each share our high and low of the week.”
“If you could repeat any day of your life, what would that be?”
“If you could go back in time to before you went to high school/junior high and give yourself one piece of advice, what would it be?”
I’ve done it with my own kids: (15, 17 and 19)
“If you could go on vacation anywhere and bring just one person, where would you choose and who would you bring?”
“If you could have one superpower, what would you choose and what would you use it for?”
“What was the last thing you cried about?”
I’ve done it with adults at a board meeting or Bible study:
“Let’s go around the circle and each share your name and something about the shoes you’re wearing.”
“If you were stuck in an elevator for 24 hours with one person, who would you like that person to be?”
“Describe your most embarrassing moment.”
These little discussion questions seem to always bring a laugh and give everyone a little peak into each other’s lives.
What about you? What are some of your favorite questions to ask in these scenarios?
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Last week I had the privilege of teaching at Doug Field’s 2013 Student Leadership Conference in Dallas (the next two are in July). Wednesday night when I arrived, I interviewed a bunch of student leaders, recording their answers for my “Lure of the Glowing Screen” workshop.
