Dove does it again, delivering another eye-opening piece about women’s self image, and providing a great opportunity to talk with our young girls about their insecurities (prompting me to write this discussion you can use with their video, with small group questions, scripture and a wrap up).
You might remember Dove’s “Real Beauty Sketches,” where a forensic artist was asked to draw sketches of women based on their own descriptions. Or you might remember their “Evolution” video where a woman sits down and is bombarded by people applying make up and hair… and then Photoshop… to attempt to measure up to the world’s definition of beauty. Dove’s Campaign for Real Beauty has had enough of the world’s unattainable definition of beauty.
Dove just released another video, this time about the selfie, the pictures young people love to take, holding their phone’s camera with an outstretched arm, pointed back at themselves. Dove understands the battle many young girls endure each time they snap one of these pics to share.
“I worry a lot about my positioning in the picture because I do have a really round face…”
“I hate my rosey cheeks because people I always say I look like a tomato.”
“I hate my braces and I hate my glasses… I wanna say I hate my whole face.”
“Sometimes in the mirror I will cover one of my arms, like, part of it, to make it look more narrow…”
The video gives us a peek into the lives of Monument Mountain Regional High School in Great Barrington, Massachusetts, where a professional photographer addresses all the girls in a school assembly. Take a peek at this insightful video:
This short film brings so many issues to light. One of the glaring issues was how powerful the insecurities of mom can be, and how that is passed down (something we just addressed in our recent Youth Culture Window article written specifically to moms, Four Practices That Build a Girl’s Self Image.)
It was interesting to hear the laughter when the photographer in this film proposed, “What if you worked with your moms who will also be learning how to take selfies?”
I think that was one of my favorite moments in the film—moms and daughters interacting together about “selfies” and talking openly about insecurities.
But the most poignant moment for me was when the little girl with glasses shared what people had said about her looks.
“I look like a 12-year-old. I look like a boy.”
And in a moment of sincerity, she asks, “Why would people say that. It just really hurts.”
These are the kinds of conversations we need to have with our girls. Are you talking with your girls about real issues?